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Violet Palmer has achieved much in her basketball career, but is best known for being the only female to reach the highest competitive tier as a referee in a major USA professional sport, the National Basketball Association (NBA). Violet was the first female referee to officiate an NBA game, and the first openly gay referee. Success did not come easy for Violet. Early in her career, she worked tenaciously to topple gender barriers in professional sports and earned the respect of her peers. In 15 years as an NBA official, Violet has officiated 757 regular season games and 8 playoff games. Before joining the NBA, Palmer officiated in the WNBA during the league’s inaugural season, including the 1997 WNBA Championship. In 1999, Violet won the Naismith Award for official of the year.

Violet Palmer is the Coordinator of Women’s Basketball Officials for the Pacific 12 Conference and the West Coast Conference. The West Coast Conference (WCC) is an NCAA collegiate athletics conference consisting of nine member schools across the states of Arizona, California, Colorado, Oregon, Utah and Washington. Additionally, she has 3 years of CBA officiating experience and 8 years of collegiate officiating women’s games in the Pac-12, Western Athletic, West Coast, Big Sky, and Big West Conferences, as well as five NCAA Final Fours and two NCAA Championship games. Palmer also has nine years of high school officiating experience in California and seven years of USA basketball officiating experience.

Before becoming an official, Palmer was a successful basketball player both at the collegiate and high school levels. She was a four-year letter winner at California Polytechnic University at Pomona, where her team won the NCAA Division II Finals in 1985 and 1986. In addition, she was played for the varsity girls’ basketball team at Compton High School for all 3 years and was captain for the last 2 years. She was named “Team Most Valuable Player”of the Moore League her senior year and named “All League” her junior and senior years at CHS.

Violet devotes much of her non-officiating time with the City of Los Angeles Youth Referee Clinic in her hometown of Los Angeles. She is a former member of the Board of Directors for the National Association of Sports Officials and currently sits on the NCAA Mechanics Committee. She currently operates the Basics Referee School which offers basketball officials instruction using the 3-person California Collegiate Association(CCA) Women’s Basketball concept, as well as officiating mechanics, daily classroom sessions on topics such as game management, partnering, and on-court communication.

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Keep Going in Your Journey, Even When You Want to Quit

Keynote speaker John O'Leary learned hard lessons about resilience early on in life. He survived a fire that burned 100% of his body when he was 9 years old and spent five months in the hospital, going through surgeries and amputations. Now, this first night home from the hospital should be one of celebration, right? With no fingers and bandages everywhere, you'd think everyone would do everything for him. ... Until his mom put dinner in front of him and walked out of the room. She made him feed himself. It took two and a half hours. He cried. She cried in the hallway. But she didn't come back in to help. That dinner changed his life. Not because it was easy—because it was brutal, and his mom believed he could do it anyway. As his main caregiver, she knew the difference between helping someone who needs assistance and enabling someone who needs to build resilience and grow on their own. Here's what she taught him about real independence: • Set the vision for what's possible—not what's comfortable, but what they're actually capable of • Stay present through the struggle—don't rescue them, but don't leave them alone either • Let failure teach—tears and frustration build strength and resilience you can't give someone • Celebrate their victory—when they succeed, it's theirs to own That dinner wasn't just about using a fork: it was about his mom seeing a future version of John that he couldn't see yet. She stayed close but didn't step in. Today, John travels the world, lives independently, wrote bestsellers "On Fire" and "In Awe," and speaks to audiences everywhere. All because his mom loved him enough to let him struggle and build strength on his own. If you lead a team, raise kids, or care about anyone's growth, this changes how you think about motivation and how it could help them develop resilience. 🍽️ Watch the complete interview here: https://youtu.be/dlQrpCvWW0I 💪 Hire resilience keynote speaker John O'Leary for your event: https://thekeynotecurators.com/speaker/book-john-oleary/ 📅 Want to talk about tough love leadership? Book a call: https://calendly.com/thekeynotecurators/15minthekeynotecurators ✍️ Get in touch: info@thekeynotecurators.com 00:00 The First Family Dinner After the Hospital 01:23 When a Mother's Love Looks Like Cruelty 02:40 The Two-and-a-Half-Hour Struggle That Built Independence "Love is not about doing the easy thing. It's not about snowplowing the road to say, Hey guys, it's gonna be easy. Follow me. Sometimes love is about letting them fail forward and causing tears, and then leaving the room, crying yourself, wiping those tears, and coming back in." — John O'Leary "She cast a vision of what was possible, not what was easy. There's a difference." — John O'Leary #Motivation #ToughLove #Resilience #Leadership #Empowerment --- Bringing people together to exchange ideas and hear from thought leaders who educate and inspire is what you do best. Curating the world's most impactful speakers for events is where we shine. For two decades, The Keynote Curators has worked with event and conference planners to guarantee they hit a home run when it comes to the main stage. As your trusted partner, we listen carefully to event objectives and go to work quickly, accessing the industry's largest network of speakers so that you have the most compelling speakers to choose from. We provide insight, offer advice throughout the decision-making process, and take care of every detail once the right speaker is selected, ensuring your event is unique, memorable, and goes off without a hitch. Find out for yourself why planners choose The Keynote Curators to deliver results and make planning a breeze. Contact our office today. VISIT OUR WEBSITE: https://thekeynotecurators.com/ CONNECT WITH US: https://www.linkedin.com/company/2883493/ Our breadth of expertise expands into and beyond the following sectors and topics: SAMPLING of SECTORS SERVED: Finance, Healthcare, Technology, Education, Energy, Agriculture, Business, Manufacturing, Human Resources, and more. TOPIC SAMPLING: Disruption, Innovation, Social Media, Artificial Intelligence, Change Management, Leadership, Diversity & Inclusion, Overcoming Obstacles, Economic Forecasts, Future Trends, Inspiration/Motivations, Customer Experience, Mindfulness, Women in Business, International Affairs, ESG, Corporate Culture, Peak Performance, Empowerment, Environmental Policy, Social Justice and many more.
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Help Other People Build Resilience by Doing THIS

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The Most Common Mistake You Are Likely Making with Your Audience

John O'Leary was just a kid when his life changed forever. He's got burned on 100% of his body, and doctors gave him less than a 1% chance to survive. Months later, he was back home with no fingers and covered in scars, and he was angry. Why did this happen to him? His dad sat on the edge of his bed and asked a different question: "Why not you?" That conversation changed everything. Not because it magically fixed anything, but because it forced John to choose who he'd want to be in life: victim or victor. Here's what his dad taught him that night—a framework anyone can use when life punches you in the face: • Name the moment you're in—don't pretend it's not hard, don't sugarcoat the pain • Flip the question—instead of "Why me?" ask "Why not me?"—everyone struggles with something • Choose your identity every morning—wake up and decide who you're going to be that day • Find people who challenge you—not just comfort you, but push you to be better John's dad passed away recently. But that bedroom conversation still guides him every single day. Today, John's a bestselling author who speaks to tens of thousands at over 100 events every year. He also hosts the Live Inspired Podcast, which has over 7 million downloads. His story's becoming a feature film in 2025. The victim-or-victor choice? It's yours. Every day. Whether you're dealing with a health crisis, career setback, or just the weight of daily life wearing you down, you get to choose your response. 🙏 Watch the full conversation to hear how John turned his father's wisdom into a life of purpose: https://youtu.be/dlQrpCvWW0I 🎯 Book motivational speaker John O'Leary for your next event: https://thekeynotecurators.com/speaker/book-john-oleary/ 📞 Let's discuss bringing inspiration to your team: https://calendly.com/thekeynotecurators/15minthekeynotecurators 💬 Questions? Reach out: info@thekeynotecurators.com 00:00 Are You Born Optimistic or Do You Choose It? 01:00 The Night John's Father Asked: Victim or Victor? 02:45 How Daily Choices Shape Your Life's Direction "My sweet father, who is my hero in life, shuts the bedroom door, comes back over to me, puts his hands on my legs, looks me in the eye, and says, 'John, darn it, why not you?'" — John O'Leary "Victim or Victor, your choice, not mine." — John O'Leary (quoting his Father) #Motivation #Positivity #Resilience #JohnOLeary #OvercomingAdversity --- Bringing people together to exchange ideas and hear from thought leaders who educate and inspire is what you do best. Curating the world's most impactful speakers for events is where we shine. For two decades, The Keynote Curators has worked with event and conference planners to guarantee they hit a home run when it comes to the main stage. As your trusted partner, we listen carefully to event objectives and go to work quickly, accessing the industry's largest network of speakers so that you have the most compelling speakers to choose from. We provide insight, offer advice throughout the decision-making process, and take care of every detail once the right speaker is selected, ensuring your event is unique, memorable, and goes off without a hitch. Find out for yourself why planners choose The Keynote Curators to deliver results and make planning a breeze. Contact our office today. VISIT OUR WEBSITE: https://thekeynotecurators.com/ CONNECT WITH US: https://www.linkedin.com/company/2883493/ Our breadth of expertise expands into and beyond the following sectors and topics: SAMPLING of SECTORS SERVED: Finance, Healthcare, Technology, Education, Energy, Agriculture, Business, Manufacturing, Human Resources, and more. TOPIC SAMPLING: Disruption, Innovation, Social Media, Artificial Intelligence, Change Management, Leadership, Diversity & Inclusion, Overcoming Obstacles, Economic Forecasts, Future Trends, Inspiration/Motivations, Customer Experience, Mindfulness, Women in Business, International Affairs, ESG, Corporate Culture, Peak Performance, Empowerment, Environmental Policy, Social Justice and many more.
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The Question that Will Transform Your Life Forever

Before you let AI do your thinking, ask yourself this question: Is this making me smarter or making me lazy? Technology keynote speaker Theresa Payton has been in tech long enough to see every "revolutionary" tool that was supposed to change everything. As the former White House CIO and current AI entrepreneur, she's not anti-technology—she's just pro-human-brain. Here's her reality check: AI isn't the problem. It's how we're using it. Furthermore, you need to ask yourself—are you using it like a really smart research assistant, or are you using it like a replacement for your own thinking? Because one builds you up and the other breaks you down. Think about it for a moment—when GPS does all your navigation, you lose your sense of direction. Similarly, when spell-check handles everything, your writing skills get rusty. The same thing happens when AI does your reasoning for you. The professionals winning with AI aren't the ones using it for everything—they're the ones who know when NOT to use it. Here's how to use AI without losing yourself: • Ask yourself: Is this tool enhancing my skills or replacing them? • Set boundaries—decide what thinking you'll always do yourself • Practice without AI regularly—keep your reasoning muscles strong • Choose AI that teaches while it helps, not just gives you answers The goal of AI tools should be to enhance rather than replace human thinking and reasoning skills. Ultimately, the future belongs to people who can think critically AND leverage AI strategically. Not people who handed their brains over to machines. What's one thing you'll never let AI do for you? Drop it in the comments—I'm curious where everyone draws their lines. 🧠 Watch the full interview here: https://youtu.be/7Dm-rF6eMrA 🎯 Hire AI strategy expert Theresa Payton for your event: https://thekeynotecurators.com/speaker/book-theresa-payton/ 🔍 Need help with AI governance strategies? Let's connect: https://calendly.com/thekeynotecurators/15minthekeynotecurators 📩 Questions about AI boundaries? Email: info@thekeynotecurators.com 00:00 The Right Questions to Ask Before Using AI 01:17 When AI Becomes a Crutch Instead of a Tool 02:26 Governance and Guardrails for AI Adoption 04:08 Protecting Critical Thinking in an AI World "Ask yourself a question. And you know, the question is, if I were to leverage the technology at work or at home how could it improve things and why would I use it? And why would it be better than doing what I'm doing today?" — Theresa Payton "The line's gonna be different for everybody. But you said something really important, which is. You're doing these voice memos. So you take what's in your head, you're putting them into voice memo format, and you're using the technology to help you just get those voice memos organized." — Theresa Payton #AI #Technology #CriticalThinking #Productivity #Tech #Leadership --- Bringing people together to exchange ideas and hear from thought leaders who educate and inspire is what you do best. Curating the world's most impactful speakers for events is where we shine. For two decades, The Keynote Curators has worked with event and conference planners to guarantee they hit a home run when it comes to the main stage. As your trusted partner, we listen carefully to event objectives and go to work quickly, accessing the industry's largest network of speakers so that you have the most compelling speakers to choose from. We provide insight, offer advice throughout the decision-making process, and take care of every detail once the right speaker is selected, ensuring your event is unique, memorable, and goes off without a hitch. Find out for yourself why planners choose The Keynote Curators to deliver results and make planning a breeze. Contact our office today. VISIT OUR WEBSITE: https://thekeynotecurators.com/ CONNECT WITH US: https://www.linkedin.com/company/2883493/ Our breadth of expertise expands into and beyond the following sectors and topics: SAMPLING of SECTORS SERVED: Finance, Healthcare, Technology, Education, Energy, Agriculture, Business, Manufacturing, Human Resources, and more. TOPIC SAMPLING: Disruption, Innovation, Social Media, Artificial Intelligence, Change Management, Leadership, Diversity & Inclusion, Overcoming Obstacles, Economic Forecasts, Future Trends, Inspiration/Motivations, Customer Experience, Mindfulness, Women in Business, International Affairs, ESG, Corporate Culture, Peak Performance, Empowerment, Environmental Policy, Social Justice and many more.
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Why You Should THINK & Set Boundaries Before Using AI Tools

Greatness requires more than one person's actions. Tez Steinberg knows this first-hand: he spent over six months alone on the Pacific Ocean and became the only person to solo row from California to Hawaii with no rowing experience. Here's something paradoxical about his story: Tez noticed a pattern in his life where he'd blame others when things didn't work out. So he got in a boat alone—by choice—where there was literally nobody else to blame. The ultimate accountability, with nobody else to point fingers at, right? However, while he was out there rowing, something else emerged: he also discovered that achieving anything audacious actually requires a team working toward something bigger than any one person. Both things are true, and that changes how we think about leadership and achieving greatness. When he shared a mission bigger than just his personal achievement—raising funds for ocean plastic and scholarships—a team naturally formed around him. What this teaches us: • Get comfortable with yourself first—before you can work well with others, understand your own patterns and how you respond to challenges • Own your choices completely—eliminate the reflex to blame by taking full accountability, even when things get hard • Share a purpose bigger than yourself—don't try to recruit people to your personal goal; communicate a mission that resonates beyond you, and support will show up • Set a goal that requires you to grow—choose something so audacious you have to become a different person, and that growth attracts the right people Planning a massive event? Launching something that feels impossible? The full interview dives into how Tez led a distributed team while spending 197 days alone, and it shows why personal accountability and collective support aren't opposites. 🌊 Watch the full interview here: https://youtu.be/T1-UN8Kq7K0 🚀 Bring purpose-driven speaker Tez Steinberg to your event: https://thekeynotecurators.com/speaker/book-tez-steinberg/ 📅 Let's design a leadership experience for your team: https://calendly.com/thekeynotecurators/15minthekeynotecurators ✉️ Get in touch: info@thekeynotecurators.com 00:00 Why Greatness Needs More Than One Person 01:31 Getting Comfortable With Your Own Company 02:21 The Accountability Experiment at Sea 03:49 How Purpose Builds Your Team Naturally 04:52 Set a Goal So Big You Grow Into It "What I found is it wasn't so much an issue of recruiting a team as much as sharing what I'm up to, and a team formed around me. And so when it comes to this dynamic, this interpersonal dynamic, and how we lead ourselves and lead others, for me, a big part of it is having a purpose that's a little larger than yourself, and that will create naturally a team that helps you in this very audacious goal of yours." — Tez Steinberg "Set a goal so big, you have to grow into the person who can achieve it." — Tez Steinberg #Greatness #Purpose #TezSteinberg #Leadership #TeamBuilding --- Bringing people together to exchange ideas and hear from thought leaders who educate and inspire is what you do best. Curating the world's most impactful speakers for events is where we shine. For two decades, The Keynote Curators has worked with event and conference planners to guarantee they hit a home run when it comes to the main stage. As your trusted partner, we listen carefully to event objectives and go to work quickly, accessing the industry's largest network of speakers so that you have the most compelling speakers to choose from. We provide insight, offer advice throughout the decision-making process, and take care of every detail once the right speaker is selected, ensuring your event is unique, memorable, and goes off without a hitch. Find out for yourself why planners choose The Keynote Curators to deliver results and make planning a breeze. Contact our office today. VISIT OUR WEBSITE: https://thekeynotecurators.com/ CONNECT WITH US: https://www.linkedin.com/company/2883493/ Our breadth of expertise expands into and beyond the following sectors and topics: SAMPLING of SECTORS SERVED: Finance, Healthcare, Technology, Education, Energy, Agriculture, Business, Manufacturing, Human Resources, and more. TOPIC SAMPLING: Disruption, Innovation, Social Media, Artificial Intelligence, Change Management, Leadership, Diversity & Inclusion, Overcoming Obstacles, Economic Forecasts, Future Trends, Inspiration/Motivations, Customer Experience, Mindfulness, Women in Business, International Affairs, ESG, Corporate Culture, Peak Performance, Empowerment, Environmental Policy, Social Justice and many more.
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Why Greatness Requires More than Just Putting in The Effort

The universe has a way of getting our souls' attention, doesn't it? What would you do when your subconscious starts sending you emergency messages through your dreams? For Shelley Paxton, ignoring those messages wasn't an option anymore. As CMO of Harley-Davidson, Shelley had everything she thought she wanted—the title, the brand, the creative resources. But for an entire year, the same nightmare kept jolting her awake. Her deceased dog, malnourished and forgotten in a utility closet. That recurring dream wasn't random—it was her soul's way of showing her what was really happening. While she was succeeding by everyone else's standards, something essential inside her was starving for attention. Shelley's recurring nightmare served as a wake-up call about her burnout and disconnection from what truly mattered. Here's what she's learned about listening to your inner wisdom: • Your soul will whisper first, but if you don't listen, it'll find louder ways to get through • External success means nothing if you're dying inside while achieving it • Dreams and gut feelings often reveal truths we're too busy to notice during the day • Sometimes the most painful wake-up calls become our greatest teachers If you've been feeling disconnected from your soul and what really matters while chasing what looks good on paper, her story might be the permission slip you need. ✨ Watch the complete transformation story: https://youtu.be/sWewAHGnxCU 🎤 Bring Shelley's soul-centered message to your event: https://thekeynotecurators.com/speaker/book-shelley-paxton/ 🗓️ Explore your own alignment journey: https://calendly.com/thekeynotecurators/15minthekeynotecurators 📧 Connect about personal transformation: info@thekeynotecurators.com 00:00 The Universe's Wake-Up Call 00:56 Living Someone Else's Success Script 02:06 The Nightmare That Changed Everything 04:13 Finding Your Soul in the Utility Closet "I got a wake-up call that I now say was like the universe and my soul conspiring, like grabbing me by the lapels and waking me up to my truth." — Shelley Paxton #PersonalGrowth #SoulTransformation #AuthenticSuccess #CareerChange #SpiritualAwakening --- Bringing people together to exchange ideas and hear from thought leaders who educate and inspire is what you do best. Curating the world's most impactful speakers for events is where we shine. For two decades, The Keynote Curators has worked with event and conference planners to guarantee they hit a home run when it comes to the main stage. As your trusted partner, we listen carefully to event objectives and go to work quickly, accessing the industry's largest network of speakers so that you have the most compelling speakers to choose from. We provide insight, offer advice throughout the decision-making process, and take care of every detail once the right speaker is selected, ensuring your event is unique, memorable, and goes off without a hitch. Find out for yourself why planners choose The Keynote Curators to deliver results and make planning a breeze. Contact our office today. VISIT OUR WEBSITE: https://thekeynotecurators.com/ CONNECT WITH US: https://www.linkedin.com/company/2883493/ Our breadth of expertise expands into and beyond the following sectors and topics: SAMPLING of SECTORS SERVED: Finance, Healthcare, Technology, Education, Energy, Agriculture, Business, Manufacturing, Human Resources, and more. TOPIC SAMPLING: Disruption, Innovation, Social Media, Artificial Intelligence, Change Management, Leadership, Diversity & Inclusion, Overcoming Obstacles, Economic Forecasts, Future Trends, Inspiration/Motivations, Customer Experience, Mindfulness, Women in Business, International Affairs, ESG, Corporate Culture, Peak Performance, Empowerment, Environmental Policy, Social Justice and many more.
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